To achieve Inclusion, Community, and Freedom for people with disabilities, we must use
The difference between the right word and the almost right word
is the difference between lightning and the lightning bug.
Mark Twain
Who are the so-called handicapped?
Society's myths tell us they are:
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people who suffer from the tragedy of birth defects | |
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paraplegic heroes who struggle to become normal again | |
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victims who fight to overcome their conditions | |
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categorically: the so-called disabled, retarded, autistic, blind, deaf, learning disabled, and more |
Who are they, really?
They are moms and dads and sons and daughters . . . employees and employers . . . scientists (Stephen Hawking) . . . friends and neighbors . . . movie stars (Marlee Matlin) . . . leaders and followers . . . students and teachers . . . they are people.
They are people, first.
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Are you myopic or do you wear glasses? | |
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Are you cancerous or do you have cancer? | |
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Are you freckled or do you have freckles? | |
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Are you handicapped/disabled or do you have a disability? |
The Disability Rights Movement is following in the footsteps of the Civil Rights Movement of the 1960s and the Women's Movement of the 1970s. While people with disabilities and advocates work to end discrimination and segregation in education, employment, and our communities at large, we must all work to eliminate the prejudicial language that creates an invisible barrier to inclusion in the mainstream of life.
Disability is a natural part of the human experience...
U.S. Developmental Disabilities Act & The Bill of Rights Act, 1993
Disability is not the
problem.
We need to rid our vocabulary of the word problem when talking about
peoples needs! A person with glasses doesn't say, I have a problem seeing. She says,
I wear (or need) glasses. Recognize that what we call a problem is actually a need.
If employers? and our society at large? believed adults with disabilities have valuable job skills and can contribute to the success of a business, we wouldn't have to fight for real jobs for real pay in the real community.
If business owners? and our society at large ?viewed people with disabilities as consumers with money to spend, we wouldn't have to fight for accessible entrances and other accommodations.
In our society, handicapped and disabled are all-encompassing terms that are misused.|
People with hearing or vision impairments don't need handicapped parking or restrooms. Many people with physical disabilities do need accessible parking and restrooms. | |
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If a handicapped entrance has a ramp for people who use wheelchairs, does the doorway have Braille signage for people with visual impairments? | |
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Accommodations that enable people with disabilities to access a facility? regardless of their disabilities? are accessible! | |
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Disabled is not accurate, either. Our society corrupts language. When a traffic reporter describes a traffic jam, we often hear, There's a disabled vehicle on the highway. Disabled, in that context, means broken down. People with disabilities are not broken! | |
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If a new toaster doesn't work, we say, It's defective! and we return it and get a new one! Do we return babies who have birth defects? The respectful term is congenital disability. |
When we misuse words, we reinforce the barriers created by negative and stereotypical attitudes. When we refer to people with disabilities by medical diagnoses, we devalue and disrespect them as members of the human race. Disability labels are simply sociopolitical terms that provide a passport to services. For too long, labels have been used to define the value and potential of people who are labeled.
People will live up (or down) to our expectations. If we expect people with disabilities to succeed, we cannot let labels stand in their way. We must not let labels destroy the hopes and dreams of people with disabilities and their families.
Disability can be defined as a body function
that operates differently.
Contrast that meaning with: the origin of handicap, from the dictionary, which refers to hand in cap, a game where the losing player was considered to be at a disadvantage; and a legendary origin of the word which refers to a person with a disability having to beg on the street with cap in hand.
Handicapped, Disabled, or People with Disabilities:
which description is most accurate?
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handicapped, and even disabled, typically evokes negative feelings (sadness, pity, fear, and more) and creates a stereotypical perception that people with disabilities are all alike. All people who have brown hair are not alike. All people who have disabilities are not alike. In fact, people with disabilities are more like people without disabilities than different!
The disability community is the largest minority group in our nation, and
it's all inclusive! It includes people of both genders and of all ages, as well as individuals from all religions, ethnic backgrounds, and socioeconomic levels. About the only things people with disabilities have in common with one another are 1) having a body part that is different and 2) facing prejudice and discrimination. Unique to the disability community is that
it's the only minority group that anyone can join in the split second of an accident.
If and when it happens to you,
will you have more in common with others with disabilities
or with your family, friends, and coworkers?
Many people who do not now have a disability will have one in the future. Others will have a family member or friend who acquires a disability. If you acquire a disability in your lifetime, how will you want to be described? How will you want to be treated? Disability issues are issues that affect everyone!
If people with disabilities are to be included in all aspects of our
communities? in the ordinary, wonderful, and typical activities most people take for
granted? they must talk about themselves in the ordinary, wonderful, typical language others use about themselves.
Children with disabilities are children, first. The only labels they need are their names! Parents must not talk about their children in the clinical terms used by medical practitioners. A parent of a child who wears glasses (medical diagnosis: myopia) doesn't say, My daughter is myopic, so why does the parent of a child who has a medical diagnosis of autism say, My daughter is autistic.?
Adults with disabilities are adults, first. The only labels they need are their names! They must not talk about themselves the way service providers talk about them. An adult with a medical diagnosis of cancer
doesn't say, I'm cancerous, so why does an adult with a diagnosis of cerebral palsy say,
I'm disabled.?
What's the only purpose of a disability label?
To get services!
A disability label is simply a medical diagnosis and a
sociopolitical passport for entry into the service system.
Disability labels cannot be used to define human beings!
My son, Benjamin, is 14 years old. He loves Star Wars, pretzels, and playing on the computer; he collects Pez candy dispensers. He has blond hair, blue eyes, and cerebral palsy. His disability is only one characteristic of his whole persona. He is not his diagnosis, and his potential cannot be defined by his disability label. In fact, among friends and family, and in typical settings, a
person's disability should be irrelevant! Disability labels should only be used within the service system; they have no place in the real world!
When I introduce myself to people, I don't tell them I'll never be a prima ballerina. Like others, I focus on my strengths, not on what I can't do. Don't you do the same? I don't say, My son can't write with a pencil. I say, My son uses a computer to write. I don't say, My son can't walk. I say, My son uses a wheelchair. How can you change the language you use about yourself or others with disabilities?
A person's self-image is strongly tied to the words used to describe the person. For generations, people with disabilities have been described in negative, stereotypical language that has created mythical portrayals about them. Over time, these myths have taken on the power of truths, when they're actually lies. We must all believe people with disabilities are real people with unlimited potential, just like all people. We must stop believing the myths? the lies? of labels.
We have the power to create new truths about people with disabilities. Using People First Language can influence
society's views and treatment of people with disabilities.
Isn't it time for us to make this change?
If not now, when? If not you, who?
Benjamin goes ballistic when he hears handicapped. I hope when he's grown, labels will be extinct. People First Language is right. Just do it!
| Say | Instead of |
| people with disabilities | the handicapped or disabled |
| he has a cognitive disability | he's mentally retarded |
| she has autism | she's autistic |
| he has Down syndrome | he's Downs |
| she has a learning disability | she's learning disabled |
| he has a physical disability | he's a quadriplegic/crippled |
| she's of short stature | she's a dwarf (or midget) |
| he has an emotional disability | he's emotionally disturbed |
| she uses a wheelchair or mobility chair | she's wheelchair bound or she's confined to a wheelchair |
| he receives special ed services | he's in special ed |
| typical kids kids without disabilities | normal or healthy kids |
| congenital disability | birth defect |
| brain injury | brain damaged |
| accessible parking | handicapped parking |
| she needs . . . or she uses . . . | she has a problem with . . . |
And no more special needs! A person's needs aren't special to him? they're normal and ordinary! Keep thinking? there are many descriptors we need to change. Practice new ways of thinking!
Copyright ? 2001 by Kathie Snow. www.disabilityisnatural.com
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